Welcome to the stars, intrepid traveller.

Everybody, please read these for your own safety:

Definition of gaslighting (a very common form of emotional abuse. Sadly, not everyone is aware that it is abuse or that it exists): http://www.abuserecovery.yolasite.com/gaslighting.php

Find out whatNarcissistic personality Disorder is here: http://www.runboard.com/bnarcissisticabuserecovery.f2.t63

Here are tips on dealing with people with Narcissistic Personality (NP) Disorder, and emotionally abusive and controlling people: http://www.abuserecovery.yolasite.com/tips-and-traps.php This page has tips on how to deal with them regarding child custody, attending court and co-parenting. There is also advice from survivors of NP abusers on handling suicide threats, stalking and protecting your job. There are colleagues and bosses with NP, and this site has information on how to handle them.

I want everyone who is stopping by on this lj to consider reading these, because gaslighting is very common, but many victims are unaware of it. NP people can be found anywhere, and can even be very successful and popular,despite the misery they bring to other people. Psychological abuse, manipulation, mind games and power games are not trivial - they are extremely serious. They can lead to depression, poor health - as well as losing your family, friends, livelihood and belongings. Abuse by NPs and gaslighting could be happening to you or your loved ones, so please spread this information around.