GLBTIQ links
Jan. 27th, 2010 08:45 pmHi there all and sundry,
Fantastic link on passing and transphobia (I strongly recommend that people read this. Yes, even LGBTIQ people):
http://questioningtransphobia.wordpress.com/2010/01/08/passing/
Best parts:
Passing is a system used by cissexist cultures to control trans people, to ostracize, and to justify violence perpetrated against them.
http://chronos-tachyon.net/mirror/io.com/
It's a guide that's very easy to understand (and hilarious!).
Fantastic link on passing and transphobia (I strongly recommend that people read this. Yes, even LGBTIQ people):
http://questioningtransphobia.wordpress.com/2010/01/08/passing/
Best parts:
Passing is a system used by cissexist cultures to control trans people, to ostracize, and to justify violence perpetrated against them.
- Don’t bring it up first. It’s up to the trans person, and you should never expect that eventually having that conversation is a guarantee, no matter how well you know the person you think is trans.
- If a trans person outs themselves to you, don’t assume that means the conversation is about whether or not you knew. When I tell someone about my trans-ness, I do so because I want to make it clear I consider them someone I trust to know me in a more significant way.
- Your perspective is not universal. Gender perception varies with individuals, cultures, and any number of factors. While some might be 100% certain the world must see a trans person’s gender the way they do, this is cis chauvinism. In the process of making my own gender less clear I have grown used to being confidently sir-ed or ma’am-ed, often within seconds.
- Defer to the trans person’s wishes as to how open they want to be...Outing someone can get them killed! Combined with a strong sense of entitlement to ignore point #3 because they’re queer, this behavior is infuriating and dangerous.
http://chronos-tachyon.net/mirror/io.com/
It's a guide that's very easy to understand (and hilarious!).